After Twenty Years

You would think after 20 years of being married to some one that the marriage should continue for life but this is not how it turns out for most. In fact a lot of marriage's go down in flames a little past this mark. There is 2 things going on here. One is the man wanting to relive his teenage life before he gets any older and also you have the woman finally feeling free to do what she wants to do since the children are now out of the home. This is not a good combination of 2 things going on at the same time.

I have two stories that tells about this situation. This first one is about my on parents after 21 years of being married.  My mother was a homemaker and really never got out of the house much even to see her own family. Us kids kept her pretty busy and she did not like to see us to far away from her at anytime. Dad worked all the time because I was always sick and the doctor and medicine bills was something that he had to take care of all the time. He worked two jobs most of the time and mom was at home by herself with just us kids and me being sick did not help matters. Well finally I get old enough and well enough to go off too college and the other kids got old enough too so the end was about to come to this marriage of my parents with these two main elements happening. Dad has extra money and starts to spend it on other women to get the excitement that he so much wanted and of course mom starts to get out of the house and fines out that she likes this freedom of going wherever she wanted to go without restraints.  Dad drinks and parties and mom gets pregnant at 38 years by another man which of course made the A-Bomb look small and the marriage ends.  Lack of fun and lack of communication in this marriage lead to a big demise where everyone hates everyone else.

This story is about a man that had to have a red corvette at 40 years old and a wife that just had to have a new house with a swimming pool to show off her fine body that she had at her age. The red corvette got the man a lot of attention from the young ladies and needless to say he could not resist the passion that was flowing thought his body. In this story the same thing happening to the woman too and they both left each other for younger guys and girls. Man, the kids really got screwed on that deal.

Divorce is at about 60 percent in the U.S. and the above stories is just an example of what goes on everyday in family's all across this country. Of course there is other reasons people fall apart but this 20 year deal is what I have seen for myself and I have heard of similar stories from others. We must fine away to communicate and have fun together early on in the marriage so to have something strong enough to keep us glue together as we travel this road of marriage if we plan to stay together for live. The old timers that have done it tells me that it is not easy all the time in the marriage but talking and getting out together along the way of life kept the lifetime marriage alive and going forward even with temptation that came along the way of their life but they say the bonding in the first 5 years did the trick for them.  It must be one hell of a glue at the 5 year mark.

If there was life in space how would they see women

"They're made out of meat."

"Meat?"

"Meat. They're made out of meat."

"Meat?"

"There's no doubt about it. We picked up several from different parts of the planet, took them aboard our recon vessels, and probed them all the way through. They're completely meat."

"That's impossible. What about the radio signals? The messages to the stars?"

"They use the radio waves to talk, but the signals don't come from them. The signals come from machines."

"So who made the machines? That's who we want to contact."

"They made the machines. That's what I'm trying to tell you. Meat made the machines."

"That's ridiculous. How can meat make a machine? You're asking me to believe in sentient meat."

"I'm not asking you, I'm telling you. These creatures are the only sentient race in that sector and they're made out of meat."

"Maybe they're like the orfolei. You know, a carbon-based intelligence that goes through a meat stage."

"Nope. They're born meat and they die meat. We studied them for several of their life spans, which didn't take long. Do you have any idea what's the life span of meat?"

"Spare me. Okay, maybe they're only part meat. You know, like the weddilei. A meat head with an electron plasma brain inside."

"Nope. We thought of that, since they do have meat heads, like the weddilei. But I told you, we probed them. They're meat all the way through."

"No brain?"

"Oh, there's a brain all right. It's just that the brain is made out of meat! That's what I've been trying to tell you."

"So ... what does the thinking?"

"You're not understanding, are you? You're refusing to deal with what I'm telling you. The brain does the thinking. The meat."

"Thinking meat! You're asking me to believe in thinking meat!"

"Yes, thinking meat! Conscious meat! Loving meat. Dreaming meat. The meat is the whole deal! Are you beginning to get the picture or do I have to start all over?"

"Omigod. You're serious then. They're made out of meat."

"Thank you. Finally. Yes. They are indeed made out of meat. And they've been trying to get in touch with us for almost a hundred of their years."

"Omigod. So what does this meat have in mind?"

"First it wants to talk to us. Then I imagine it wants to explore the Universe, contact other sentiences, swap ideas and information. The usual."

"We're supposed to talk to meat."

"That's the idea. That's the message they're sending out by radio. 'Hello. Anyone out there. Anybody home.' That sort of thing."

"They actually do talk, then. They use words, ideas, concepts?"
"Oh, yes. Except they do it with meat."

"I thought you just told me they used radio."

"They do, but what do you think is on the radio? Meat sounds. You know how when you slap or flap meat, it makes a noise? They talk by flapping their meat at each other. They can even sing by squirting air through their meat."

"Omigod. Singing meat. This is altogether too much. So what do you advise?"

"Officially or unofficially?"

"Both."

"Officially, we are required to contact, welcome and log in any and all sentient races or multibeings in this quadrant of the Universe, without prejudice, fear or favor. Unofficially, I advise that we erase the records and forget the whole thing."

"I was hoping you would say that."

"It seems harsh, but there is a limit. Do we really want to make contact with meat?"

"I agree one hundred percent. What's there to say? 'Hello, meat. How's it going?' But will this work? How many planets are we dealing with here?"

"Just one. They can travel to other planets in special meat containers, but they can't live on them. And being meat, they can only travel through C space. Which limits them to the speed of light and makes the possibility of their ever making contact pretty slim. Infinitesimal, in fact."

"So we just pretend there's no one home in the Universe."

"That's it."

"Cruel. But you said it yourself, who wants to meet meat? And the ones who have been aboard our vessels, the ones you probed? You're sure they won't remember?"

"They'll be considered crackpots if they do. We went into their heads and smoothed out their meat so that we're just a dream to them."

"A dream to meat! How strangely appropriate, that we should be meat's dream."

"And we marked the entire sector unoccupied."

"Good. Agreed, officially and unofficially. Case closed. Any others? Anyone interesting on that side of the galaxy?"

"Yes, a rather shy but sweet hydrogen core cluster intelligence in a class nine star in G445 zone. Was in contact two galactic rotations ago, wants to be friendly again."

"They always come around."

"And why not? Imagine how unbearably, how unutterably cold the Universe would be if one were all alone ..."

The story of a woman that did not let life destroy her

I am a friend of a woman that has had a lot of bad things happen to her, some of it is of her on creations and some of it is not, but as you will read below she has wrote how she has overcome these things and has not let life destroy her but in fact is going to come up on top to rise to the occasion. This is one of the best life stories that I have read in a long time. I am going to tell you the name that she wants to be known by who wrote the following bio and her name is Mare B. Let me know what you think about her story.

I love life and what it has to offer and I believe anything is possible if only you believe! I am probably the most honest person you will ever meet, I hate fake ass people, I am not into the drama scene. People live their lives how they choose to and I choose to live mine happily. Sure shit gets us down but it makes us better to get back up and prevail. I never let anyone or anything beat me, been there done that, stupid I was but stupid I'll be no more. I have been through hell & back, I have made every mistake in my life except for marriage lol....But I believe what doesn't kill me only makes me stronger. I have buried my father & thought that was my hardest struggle, till the day I buried my son, it gets no harder than that....I believe the only reason I survived his death is due to the other 3 children I have, but believe not a day goes by that I don't think of him & miss him, he's a part of my heart that will never leave even after I've gone. I have been through the drunk days, the drugs, the crazy abusive men & any other bull-shit imaginable, heck it's almost like a damn lifetime movie, lol, but all of that has made me an ever strong women...I have learned from all of my mistakes... I have come to the point in my life to know that there is more out there than all the partying & bull-shit. I let to many years of my life pass me by to have fun...I'm over that shit & in the process of rejuvenation, full-filling all my goals & dreams, no matter what they may be, because I know anything is possible, I just have to have faith & believe in myself, even when others don't believe in me, I'll just prove em wrong. I know I am a good person & have the ability to achieve anything I want and trust that I will, and best believe that never again will I let a man or anyone bring me down, no more listening to the bull-shit of he loves me, he will change, etc... I'm over all that type of shit...I'm all bout doing me, fuck the rest, I learned from the best, now I'm better than the rest....So recognize.....I'm all bout me, myself, & I, & the ones that are closest to my heart.... Right now my children currently live with their grandparents & a friend of their family because they talked me into giving them temp guardianship because the children's abusive, drug addict, felon father basically got me for everything and turned my life upside down & financially I couldn't afford to take care of them & trusted in these people to help me and my babies.. But now they are being childish & keeping my children from me for stupid reasons and filling their heads with lies, which is very hurtful to me & my children...But I know here in time hopefully soon the truth will come out and they will get theirs, justice will be served...I don't understand how grown adults can be so childish and how they can break a family apart yet go on everyday with their lives like it's nothing, don't they know they are mainly hurting the children??? GOD I will never understand some people and they way they live their lives...But what I do know is that justice & truth will work in my favor and they will be sorry in the end...Hopefully someday they can grow up and grow a heart.... I have made friends that are ever so damn cherishable, irreplaceable, committed, & have loving strength beyond my own knowledge & I am so damn thankful for them...They have consumed my heart in numerous ways & shall always hold a dear place in my heart, thanks for all your love & support, you know who you are!!!! Life is hard & the fucked up thing is we tend to make it harder on our selves, well I am done doing that....I want happiness and fulfillment!!! I'm almost there baby, when I do get there I just want my haters to recognize it & know they ain't shit, never was, never will be, find something new to hate on, cuz I'm the wrong one, best believe!!! I'm that one that will succeed, best believe, because unlike most I believe in me, yes that's right I'm LIL MS FUCKED UP whom believes in herself & always will from here on out!!!! I just signed up for college, I'm going for my 2yr bachelors degree in Medical billing & medical assistant, I work in an office Mon-Fri form 9am-5pm & off on weekends, although days off are never really days off cuz there's always laundry, cleaning, etc...lol... My haters are and always be my true motivators...While I am out achieving my goals and dreams they will still be sitting around feining for drama, I so dislike them dang drama addicts, it's actually sad how people live there lives for drama, it's what motivates them to get up every morning...Like they say what comes around goes around and KARMA is a bitch....I pray for you people whom live your lives like that....Especially the adults that live that way, really it's time to grow up and get a life you drama enforcers.... Anyways that's all about me, lol.... Never Lie, Steal, Cheat, or Drink. But if you must Lie, Lie in the arms of the one you love. If you must Steal, Steal away from bad company. If you must Cheat, Cheat death. And if you must Drink, Drink in the moments that take your breath away!?? Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breaths away!?? Ya know what is seen by the naked eye is blind to the seeing heart, we are all a pawn in the game of love when we make one are priority and we are only there option. We love, listen, hear, and believe, but are blind to the honest life. Never settle for what you don't truly believe in, always reach higher & make sure your always satisfied. Life is tooo damn short to let misfortunes consume us! Never let anyone consume you nor ur thoughts, be you, be what you believe in. Life is ever so precious and unlasting, don't let miss-happens control that and do your best to never let ones words fool you, because the first time they have hurt/betrayed you shame on them, but the second & third time & so on they have done it, shame on you... Love yourself & know you deserve the best!!!!!!!

Why not dress up when you go out?

When I go out to shop at the grocery store or even at Wal-Mart in this small town that I live in I see the same thing over and over again. This same thing is women not dress up to go to one of the best places to meet men that I know of and get a good one. This is not out of proportion the number that I am about to give but the amount that I see when I am out. 90 percent of the women that I see is dress down so much that I think that they do not think that they are God's of this earth. How do they not want to present them self outside their home in a very good meeting place and not be ready to meet the next Mr. Right if he comes along. I am so use to it now that I do not notice it as much as I use to but when I lived in a lot larger city in my state the women there dress to impress most of the time. I know in a small town there is less to choose from and there is also many of the women married and also have a guy but lets think about this. Your man wants to be proud of his girl and he really wants his girl to present herself as a representative of him which means he would like to know that she looks nice even when getting someone else is not an issue.
My profile page at myspace gets a lot of hits each day because of the beautiful women that I have posted there and it is based on the theme "Women Rock". Women Rock no matter how they are dress or look but still being ready to come up close and personal with a possible new mate would be something that I would do everyday as a women because if you do not get the good man some other woman will that might have a little bit of an edge on you. Really personality and your inward self is the most important part that a man should be interested in but we all know men and the eye's of man looks first and gets to know later. This blog is just food for thought to the women out there in small towns or even large ones who are having a hard time finding Mr. Right. Just think about your dress even if it is just a short trip to the grocery store. It could pay off in spades if you are ready for the occasion. Like always give me your comments on this subject and let me know how you feel about this dressing up ideal.

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Have a great day!

The Age of the Man for Marriage

Men, when do they get old enough to handle a relationship? That is the question that every woman should consider before thinking of tying the knot with a purposed man. Men go threw a lot of different changes as they get older and time passes in their life. There is one thing for sure a man in his twenties is not settled down enough yet and ready to stay with one woman for a 50 year term period. Most women need love and affection. They need the attention from the man of their dreams and truly a man under 40 is not able to aim what is needed to a woman at the level that is necessary, as it is highly needed continually. Men under 40 are going threw different levels of changes from 18 to 39. 20 year old to 30 year old men have their career on their mind most of the time and also how they place in this world that they live. They have a tenuous to be a little self centered and think that the world circles around them and they have a hard time focusing on others that should be important to them that are in their love perimeter. The woman is doing everything she can to show love to their man and maybe at the same time raising the man's children but to no avail are they getting the attention that they need to continue maintaining the level of love that they had at the beginning of the relationship which was usually based on the experience of sex that they were having at that time, of course the man enjoyed that part of the relationship and I would say that the woman did to most of the time, but sex will not carry the load of the relationship all by itself. By the time the 5th anniversary comes along things start to fall apart because the man starting his 30's is now going threw a new change in his life. The job is the biggest influence on that more than anything plus having to deal with possible teenage kids in the house that is putting pressure on him money wise. The man between 30 and 39 is just now adjusting to the ideal that he is starting to get old and does not like the ideal of this at all and has a tenuous to want some type or kind of change in his life to offset these feelings and about 65 percent of the time that includes bringing another woman into his life to give him a burst of energy that he thinks will offset the feelings that he is having at this time. So of course you know who all is going to ultimately paid for that, the woman and the kids. So you now ask what is the solution to all this now, at this point in time, now before you ever commit to the first man to marriage. The answer is to date and marry a man that is at least 40 years of age. A woman once told me "That a boy does not become a man till he reaches the age of 40" he at this time has got to the point where he can put down his play things, which can be about anything, and begin focusing on intimate personal relationship without sex being the number one thing on the list that "has to happen". Make no mistake sex is a needed thing and must be a mutual experience between the two but the 40 year old man can see past just sex but can see and also truly focus on the needs of the inter woman that is in his life at this time. Men 40 and above has finally grew up from there childish ways and can now be the adults that they should have been 20 years earlier. I know several personal accounts that is in my own life that I know of that where a woman has married a man 40 and above and still to this day are madly in love, like what I mean 10 to 15 years together and loving every moment of it. I know of me and how I have changed over the years and I know for a fact that I am a better man now than I ever was when I was younger than 40. It is something about reaching 40 that just makes some type of change in a man's thinking that makes him a better person. I remember my 40th birthday like it was yesterday and I just know that I changed from that point on and based on other women that has married men 40 and above they too have seen the different and are better for it. Make the right decision for yourself and your future or now children to get with a man that is 40 and above and I think that you will not regret it whatever your age is now.
If you have any thoughts about this subject, yeah or nay, leave me some comments because I always want to learn more about this subject as time goes on. xoxo

Women want to make you happy

From the earliest of ages of their youth women have always had and have the need to please the men in their lives. I have wrote in earlier blogs that women dress in a way to attract men to them but they also have the inward need to make a man happy by showing their beautiful bodies the this way of attracting a man to their life.  In about everything that a woman does she is trying to get their men in their lives to love her and to always stay with her. You have to think back to the the early 1960's when women where all homemakers and think about all that they did to keep the household together by cooking wonderful dinners each and everyday. Taking care of the children and making sure that the kids where on time in going to school. They cleaned the house so that the husband when he came home would come to a clean house and have a hot meal to eat and all the while making sure that they still looked sexy to their man so that he would be turned on by her and at the time of going to the bedroom the women done everything she could to get the man off in ways that made him happy.
Why did and why do women have this instinct in them? The answer is that they all need to be wanted and needed. So many men do not show their appreciation for what their woman does for them on a daily basic and I have seen the damage this causes in older woman today which has left them bitter and a bad taste of men in their mouth for how they were unseen for the effort that they put out in their early years to the men that were in there life's at that time. I do understand why some women look at men now with a bit of negative attitude because they now at this time think that every man just does not appreciate what they do and have done to make their self attractive to men and make them happy. Can you imagine having a nature innate thought process in you to make someone happy and then be treated badly or even worst be betrayed by another person because you are not seen as you really are but just expected to be the way you are without appreciation and love for what you have done.
All men that do read this article please start now to show the woman in your life the love that they desperately need for them to be truly happy and believe me you will never regret the decision to do so. To the woman that are reading this please do not lose your spark of giving that is hardwired in you to give just because of the negative things that might have had been handed to you by some bad men. Believe me there is still a lot of  good men in the world and you should not stop looking for the man that will treat you as you should be treated for the effort that you put out because of the true need to do so. 

This is the day before Valentine's, be ready

I could not let Valentine's Day go by without me saying something on this matter since all of the women in the known world are looking foreward to something, good or bad, to happen on this day. Women are my biggest readers and so I am writing to them on this day to say to them not to built up on theirselves to big of a large goal for this day. It is better to expect alittle less from your man than to have a large of a Great Expectation for the day. Men can let you down even when they are trying their hardest to make you happy on this day. But remember there goal, and that is to get you into bed which might not be your top priority for the day. Just know upfront that is a big thought on their mind and they cannot help themselves.

Just enjoy yourself and be happy to have a man on this day because there are a lot of women that might be by theirself this day and they would give anything to just to know that a man has even just thoughts of her on Valentine's Day.

I wish you all the dreams that you want for this day and please use protection in the bedroom tomorrow because you do not want to have a bigger surprise nine months from this weekend. Talk to you soon.....btw leave some comments on what you did for tomorrow on my blog because I know my readers would love to hear about it. xoxo

Women at a View

I  was viewing some women's profile pages at myspace today and it really amazes me how the women on myspace love to show their God given beauty to the millions of people that is on that site. Wherever you go there is a view of a woman that knows that she is fine to look at and this is a good thing because of all the things that is around us it is a pleasure to see a girl that can enhance the other beautiful things that is around us. You got to understand that the nature of the world is for the female of the species  to be able to attract the opposite sex with a view that the male cannot resist to look upon. Once that contact has been viewed by the male then the communication can begin. In my thought on this blog that I produce I think that all women have a beauty that effects every man in a different way. My reasoning that women are Gods is based on the effect that they have, on any given day, to attract the right man for them based on how they are presented at the right moment  the right time to a man that causes the man to make contact and see if the woman has a interest in him. Going back to the myspace profiles I see thousands of women working very hard to get the best exposure to as many men as they can to have a larger pool of men or women to choose from. Every woman has the right to have the man of their dreams and to use whatever means necessary to reach that goal. The benefit that comes from this is that we have a view of beauty that floods the spaces that is around us with something that some people think is a bad thing because in their mind they think that the woman who is doing this is a whore or other words that they can come up with but I say that the power that a woman has over the man by the way she comes across is a good thing because if you think that there is no color in the world except black or white and take away the reds,blues,yellows and pinks where would the art of the world be with that mindset. No one wants a painting that is just all black or all white. The colors is what makes the excitment and the intrique of people so interesting and vivid in our dreams that makes our needs in everyday life to be for us to have something to shoot for to maybe have someday in our life even if it is just a vision of what we would love to have just once in our lifes. Women are Gods, they are a jewel that should be aways appreciated in whatever way they come across to you.

All women need to feel like number one

Men should never forget to treat the woman in there life like there girl is the only girl in town. Women can love with so much passion and they give what they have to the man that they have picked to be there partner in life so fully. A woman's thoughts run deep and they can pick out when there man is not putting them where they should be and even when there man is not doing it they still give of there self to try to please there man in life. We as men should not keep pushing the edges of the relationship because of the other pressures of life that can, at the time, seem more important to take care of. We must keep in mind that the woman is always looking for there energy from us and we must not push them back in a second position when all they would like is to be appreciated for who they are in the relationship. You have to remember that woman already have a prethought that they could be replaced if the man in there life stays gone to long during the day and even when they push these thoughts to the back of there mind it does cause them to feel that they are still not thought of as equals to the relationship if you as the man does not put every effort into place to ensure that the woman in your life is part of your life as if you could not preform without her. Make the woman in your life number one and you will not be sorry for doing so.

Please comment on your feelings about this subject, Thank you.

The thoughts of a woman

Women are so sensitive in there thinking and the thoughts that they have. Every woman has there dream that they want for there life to go in and they put these thoughts into action with everyone that they meet. Women look past the physical and see right thought a person to see what they need to see to know what the other person is trying to work thought in that person's life. Women have a natural ability to feel the hurt and pain in others and they want to give of herself to help other's past the things that are going on in some one's life. I love how a woman's mind operates. Men just deal with the facts of things, but women look past the facts and measure how the emotions of a situation effects another and puts all of the things together to form a solution to the problems of the people that come into their life's. Women dream of a good future even against the odds that might be upon them. There thougths are foreword with a hint of the past to give them the strenght to believe that all things will work out no matter what the walls are put into there way. You might not know what a woman might be thinking but you can know that her thoughts are always forming with every action that you put before her.

The beauty of the body

People invest millions into fine art. Art museums are in every large city to unveil things that men and woman have made over the centuries for us to marvel about but I tell you that the most precious and the most beautiful things that have been created on this earth is the body of a woman. They say Helen of Troy caused the sinking of a thousand ships because of a war that was fault over her and I tell you that it was worth it because women are so precious, so wonderful to look at that no object on earth can compare to the individual beauty that each woman gives to this world. I think about the years that I have been on this earth and without doubt the pretties things that I have ever seen have been the women that I have come in contact with and all the beauty that God has created in each one of them, in movies,theater,TV and just in walking into a mall and seeing the art work that freely walks by you as you are just going to get new clothes there at this place. People might think that this writing makes women just an object of men's thoughts but I say that bravo to the women that dress up and makes there presents known and are not shy in letting them self be seen as the art that they truly are. We go to flower gardens to see the perfect flower, maybe a rose, maybe a violet, but none of these are more easy to the eye than a woman that presents herself to the world for everyone to appreciate without millions being spend for us to see.

This week is the last week that I have to wait for the coming of my girlfriend to come home. She has been away seeing family and it seems to me that she has been gone since the melting of the ice age, but you know when she comes back though my door my heart will melt like ice and the heat that i will feel would make fire stop,drop, and row.
No matter what others might say women are the centers of our life's and that is a good thing because without them this world would be a sad place. Women give the world a soft place to rest our stress soaked minds.
If you feel this way comment this blog and tell your story.