The Age of the Man for Marriage

Men, when do they get old enough to handle a relationship? That is the question that every woman should consider before thinking of tying the knot with a purposed man. Men go threw a lot of different changes as they get older and time passes in their life. There is one thing for sure a man in his twenties is not settled down enough yet and ready to stay with one woman for a 50 year term period. Most women need love and affection. They need the attention from the man of their dreams and truly a man under 40 is not able to aim what is needed to a woman at the level that is necessary, as it is highly needed continually. Men under 40 are going threw different levels of changes from 18 to 39. 20 year old to 30 year old men have their career on their mind most of the time and also how they place in this world that they live. They have a tenuous to be a little self centered and think that the world circles around them and they have a hard time focusing on others that should be important to them that are in their love perimeter. The woman is doing everything she can to show love to their man and maybe at the same time raising the man's children but to no avail are they getting the attention that they need to continue maintaining the level of love that they had at the beginning of the relationship which was usually based on the experience of sex that they were having at that time, of course the man enjoyed that part of the relationship and I would say that the woman did to most of the time, but sex will not carry the load of the relationship all by itself. By the time the 5th anniversary comes along things start to fall apart because the man starting his 30's is now going threw a new change in his life. The job is the biggest influence on that more than anything plus having to deal with possible teenage kids in the house that is putting pressure on him money wise. The man between 30 and 39 is just now adjusting to the ideal that he is starting to get old and does not like the ideal of this at all and has a tenuous to want some type or kind of change in his life to offset these feelings and about 65 percent of the time that includes bringing another woman into his life to give him a burst of energy that he thinks will offset the feelings that he is having at this time. So of course you know who all is going to ultimately paid for that, the woman and the kids. So you now ask what is the solution to all this now, at this point in time, now before you ever commit to the first man to marriage. The answer is to date and marry a man that is at least 40 years of age. A woman once told me "That a boy does not become a man till he reaches the age of 40" he at this time has got to the point where he can put down his play things, which can be about anything, and begin focusing on intimate personal relationship without sex being the number one thing on the list that "has to happen". Make no mistake sex is a needed thing and must be a mutual experience between the two but the 40 year old man can see past just sex but can see and also truly focus on the needs of the inter woman that is in his life at this time. Men 40 and above has finally grew up from there childish ways and can now be the adults that they should have been 20 years earlier. I know several personal accounts that is in my own life that I know of that where a woman has married a man 40 and above and still to this day are madly in love, like what I mean 10 to 15 years together and loving every moment of it. I know of me and how I have changed over the years and I know for a fact that I am a better man now than I ever was when I was younger than 40. It is something about reaching 40 that just makes some type of change in a man's thinking that makes him a better person. I remember my 40th birthday like it was yesterday and I just know that I changed from that point on and based on other women that has married men 40 and above they too have seen the different and are better for it. Make the right decision for yourself and your future or now children to get with a man that is 40 and above and I think that you will not regret it whatever your age is now.
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